Hi Brandon, I have played around with the RB-DMX1 a lot recently, there are a bit of scenes that have moving heads inactive, but they are typically for low intensity scenes and for scenes that solo specific fixtures like uplights. I do though not recall the moving heads still having movement in scenes without the light present and am not sure why that would do that. I would possibly try to set the inno spots to the simplest control (least amount of channels) and see if the results are any different.
If you did hook up the Gig Bar 2.0 Wednesday night, you most likely will be like me and disappointed at the results of the lack of control... I did see in another thread though that a solution was being worked on and am very curious to see what they come up with.
Now for where you stated "hoping to have control over the lights more", there actually is a pad lighting mode that gives you 16 pads.
Pads 1-8 gives you the option to change the lighting "mood" of the current song: cool, natural, club, etc...
and the other 8 pads which I enjoy is the option to choose a master color for all lighting scene active (only red, blue, and green currently). There is a master blackout mode. There are 2 strobe options (slow and fast). I can't remember the other two pads because I don't have rekordbox infront of me right now but that lighting pad mode does give some decent controls over your light show while live.
I hope I gave some useful info,