Trying to connect my XDJ RX to my recordbox on my laptop..deck 1 & deck are not loading on my laptop

So I am pretty new to rekord box but I have a problem. I connected my DJ XDJ RX to my laptop with a usb cable. I have the newest rekordbox version installed same as the newest driver for my pioneer xdj-rx on my laptop. I opened my rekord box and my pioneer is on too. 

I have a Windows 10. Which 1 do I have to load in preferences at audio : Windiows Audio or Asio? (XDJ-RX)

I have tried both and ive clicked on midi = > loaded deck 1 and deck 2 but its not connecting with my rekord box on my laptop. My rekord box deck 1 says not loaded same as deck 2? 

What do I do now?  Do I have to update the software on my Controller itself somehow maybe or what do i do?