look at question 6 on this page:
http://faq.pioneerdj.com/product.php?c=13&lang=en&p=XDJ-RX&t=faq
then look at question 4 on this page:
http://faq.pioneerdj.com/product.php?c=2033&lang=en&p=XDJ-RX&t=faq
but if you want to be really hard headed about it, you can read this too:
How to set up the PRO DJ LINK feature is provided in this guide.
PRO DJ LINK setup guide - http://faq.pioneerdj.com/files/img/DRI1124C.pdf
