2 things are important here:
iTunes rating system is NOT the same as the Rekordbox rating system they need a translation in order to work. iTunes ratings are written back to the track's metadata (in a iTunes proprietary tag). I'm not sure if Rekordbox's tags are contained in the database only or written back to the tracks.
Now for the good news:
Rekordbox 5 got a great new feature, import the playlists, cues and loops back from a USB into the collection. I show it in action at
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8uSF2Ox0yMk&feature=youtu.be
time index 1:55, including the tiny bug it contains, but in general it works great and most likely will safe your day to :)